This is not a fairy tale where a girl kissed a frog that turned into her Prince Charming but rather this is a different story (because that was a frog but my story is a fish, a FROG FISH. Lol!). Kidding aside, this is a story which has an essential element as we move forward in our daily lives. So here it goes…
I have tried a lot of times, but still I fail. I fail and I always fail. Failure never ceases to block my way. Failure dampens my spirit to move on, to realize my dreams, to reach my goals. Winning is hard to get. 😦 Maybe I just have to stop dreaming, forget everything and subscribe to the idea of letting go.
I have never fathomed the essence of my existence in this world. The reality of challenges and adversities has made my life topsy-turvy. UGH! I guess I should STOP!!! 😦 I guess I have just to drift with the current in life. I guess I will just go with the flow. Thoughts like these keep floating in my mind but the best advice for these damn thoughts – NEVER EVER GIVE UP..
How about you? Have you gone through those times that no matter how many times you tried, you were still unsuccessful — you couldn’t achieve your goals, and even just a tiny bit of luck is out of reach and nowhere to be found … as if God never listened to your heart’s desires?
Let me tell you a story where you may be inspired to follow your dream … you must not give up no matter how many tries you have made. This story prods you to try and try until … you get there. 🙂
The woman is Jayashrii. She loves the ocean and treated this as her other world. She is happy being surrounded with water. She believes she was once a mermaid.
Every time she is in that blue side of the world, she is able to witness beautiful and diverse marine creatures of varied shapes, colors, sizes and fluffiness and coral reefs with magnificent designs and structures. The more time she’s in the water the more her curiosity is aroused.
One day she wanted to see a specific creature which she had not ever seen. She desired to see Mr. Frog Fish! So she dived and dived. She dived a hundred times wishing to see Mr. Frog Fish. Sometimes she travels to other parts of the country to see this mystical creature. There are also times when she gets tired because her search had come to naught. There are dives where she gets exhausted fighting a strong current that made her drift here and there. She even had to endure the pain from wounds and scratches caused by tiny marine things which were not within her vision. Sometimes she would dived during the night with a little amount of visibility from her flashlight but still Mr. Frog Fish was nowhere in sight. Sometimes she wondered that maybe frog fishes were already extinct.
But still her hopes were high and she never surrendered.
One day, she went out with her friends and dived in BAS DAKO, Moalboal. When she submerged in the sea and neutralized her buoyancy, she thought she saw Mr. Frog Fish but it was just a huge turtle trying to sleep then suddenly startled when it saw human beings staring at it, taking photos for Facebook’s sake. It swam until it disappeared from view, well, the turtles probably hate to be published in social media. They’re a little shy.
Jayashrii kept on swimming and looking for Mr. Frog Fish. She looked from corals to corals until she unexpectedly met a deadly stone fish camouflaging in the surroundings. Upon seeing him she was shocked but was awed seeing the stunning deadly fish.
While continuing her search, she saw vibrant and colourful marine biodiversity which delighted her until her air was almost used up. She ascended and went to the surface. She was disheartened because she had not found Mr. Frog Fish underneath. Again (insert Sigh) 😦
But still her hopes were high and she would never surrender.
Until she tried night diving.
The Sun slowly departed from the grand and impressive landscape radiating fine-looking hues. Moments later darkness started to envelope the earth’s surface and then dominated the place. The water was silently alluring and inviting Jayashrii to have a night dive. She dived and sank deep down under the dark-colored seawater.
Amidst the black surroundings, she carried her flashlight hoping to see Mr. Frog Fish. She swam pointing her light towards the corals but still no frog fish was in sight. She saw turtle once again flying gracefully in the sea.
She searched around for Mr. Frog Fish. Then suddenly beside a coral, something moved. She looked at it. She thought that it was just a part of a soft coral that moved; but it was Mr. Frog Fish! It was the size of a softball and was pale pink in color.
She watched Mr. Frog Fish over and over and then it got disturbed in its sleep may be because of the light pointed towards it.
Oh, Jayashri felt sorry for the trouble she made. She was just awestruck and fascinated with this mystical creature. If she could just shout her happiness in the water she would have done it. She was really in high spirits that finally she saw Mr. Frog Fish.
She didn’t bother Mr. Frog Fish anymore and left it in peace. She was grateful for everything she had experienced because all the obstacles were paid off. It was worth it.
FUN FACT :
Based on my research in the net, frog fish is one of the few ancient fishes still alive and most of them cannot swim. Instead they walk at the bottom of the sea.
Just look at the video of how Mr. Frog Fish walked.
I know you may find this piece a sheer thought of implausibility of our existence but the moment we believe in not giving up, we are formidable to embrace and face great challenges and circumstances that may come our way for we know that once our dream will be realized, we will be happy tasting the sweetness of success and savouring the flavour of achievement.
Never ever give up. What if you give up on your 99th try, not knowing that the hundredth try will be the realization of your dream? The prize may be far … but just keep on. It’s okay to get tired but just keep going. Who knows? 😉
© Thanks to Kuya Val and Jayashrii for the photos 🙂